This site is about my experience of alcohol and how it can take over a life and ultimately kills it. On the way to death, alcohol destroys not just that life, it destroys a personality, it destroys a family, it destroys networks, connections and futures. 

This is the story of my wife's death at the hands of alcohol. From my perspective, not the alcoholics. 

I thought it more telling to break this into sections because when you go through this experience the steps to death merge and you lose sight of what is happening. The Start - Taking a Hold - Towards the End.

The purpose of this site is to give you an idea of what alcohol can do, how you need to act and use my experience to try to avoid the devastating consequences my daughters and I have gone through. 

It is short and raw so that you can step through the pages and understand my tragic circumstances and comments in just a few minutes. But if you want to discuss or consider more, please use the blog.